Reply from rego below. Can someone simplify it for me? 

Quote:Hi Novice and Spaceman!
Glad to meet you (I guess). I say I guess, since I'm not sure where or how we met! :-)
I appreciate your sharing of information and we are happy to reciprocate - yes we did take Metal Casting and no, we have not yet met anyone. Seems like that's the way things go for me - I never seem to meet anyone early.
And thanks for being "Straight Talkers!" As you know from reading my posts in PB4, I'm the same way!!! ;-) But seriously, I do like straight talking - I really don't spend hours and hours composing these diplo messages - that's just how I talk! You'll see if/when you grab me on chat. Speaking of which, I'm generally on Google Talk as well as AOL IM with this same screenname.
We also appreciate the offer of Open Borders. I will probably have to decline the offer that pops up immediately, but I'm definitely interested in discussing how that might work between our civs. As you well know, having the Great Lighthouse gives you much more of a benefit to having Open Borders than we would get (even assuming that we have a trade route to you which at this point we probably don't?).
Though we have not met anyone and have thus not been approached with this by anyone, it would not surprise me if there was some sort of "don't sign OBs with the GLH guy" pact being floated, perhaps already? So I hope you understand my need for caution at this point. I don't want to sign OB with you and find myself on the wrong side of a 3v2 dogpile.
But. Having said that, obviously from my experience in PB4, I am sensitive to your guys' side of things too. And even though you're not in PB4, so couldn't close borders there in retaliation (not that you would actually DO that), maybe somebody that IS in PB4 might read our conversation and want to close borders with me after reading our diplo conversations in one of our threads? So I don't really want to take a hard line on that, since I find it annoying and stupid that everyone punishes the guy with the GLH, just because he happened to spend early resources on it (speaking of which dang you guys built that FAST!)
So. How can we build up closer relations without necessarily signing OB this exact turn? I've read your thread in PBEM13, and in fact it is one of the few that I check up on at this point. So I know you guys are good players, and generally I prefer to ally with strong players because it makes things more fun than trying to "dominate" a weaker player. Of course in this game, everybody is pretty good so maybe that's not as big of a factor.
So what do you think? I try to respond pretty quickly to diplo messages, and if you guys do too, I think that's a good sign of the beginnings of a promising working relationship! Like I said, feel free to reply via email or chat
dan.
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