With 2 people left to vote, we seem to have this much settled on as a team:
Civilizations per Team -- One
8 votes for, no alternatives
Starting Era -- Ancient
4 votes for Ancient
3 for no preference
1 for Renaissance
Diplomacy -- Full Private
4 votes for Full Private
1 vote for Full Public
1 vote for Banter Thread Only
1 vote for Banter Thread at Minimum (counting this as being for Full Private)
Always War -- No
6 votes for No
2 votes for Yes
Blockades -- No
5 votes for No
2 votes for "pirates only" (does this mean only we can do blockades and other teams can't?

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1 vote for Modern Era only
Tech Trading -- No
6 votes for No
1 vote for Yes
1 vote for Limited (2 techs per era)
Nukes -- No
8 votes for No, no other votes given
Map Trading -- Always
6 votes for Always
2 votes for At Paper
These are mostly decided
Pick Method -- Snake Pick
3 votes for unrestricted snake
1 vote for banning the usual suspects then snake pick
1 vote for teams banning a trait/civ then snake pick
1 vote for submitting top 5 civs/leaders
These are still potentially up in the air:
Barbarians -- leaning towards On
1 vote for Raging
5 votes for On
3 votes for Off
Spies
1 vote for Full
3 votes for No Civic / Religion Switching
4 votes for Off
Corporations
3 votes for Yes (plus 1 vote for ban Sushi on water heavy map)
3 votes for No
War Elephants
2 votes for Yes
3 votes for Khmer Only
3 votes for No
Banned Wonders
2 votes for GLH if it is a water heavy map
2 votes for SoZ
3 votes for Mapmaker's choice
Ban AP Religious Victory?