Diplomatic points are worth nothing. I'd just tell to their face, straight, that the only logical place for us to settle that still gives us a chance to win this game is towards them. No amount of good will or promise of cooperation can make up for our only chance of winning. Then I'd say that they really can't argue with our logic.
Than I'd say that our only benefit as a team is quick expansion. Again, no amounts of cooperation or good will can make up for our adavantage loss. So we'd only be willing to negotiate settling agreements and the like if they favor us. Not exactly favoring us, but they need to reflect the current balance of power between our teams in a possible settling race.
I'd also say that not settling towards each other with the first city is just a way of delaying the solution of the obvious problem that both our teams want to expand as far away as possible. So we don't see the benefit in such an agreement if it's not connected to some sort of borders discussion, which, again, will take into account that we are Sury of India.
Seeing that one of their neighboors already attacked them, it'd be interesting to see what they diplo-machine would do to answer us.
Than I'd say that our only benefit as a team is quick expansion. Again, no amounts of cooperation or good will can make up for our adavantage loss. So we'd only be willing to negotiate settling agreements and the like if they favor us. Not exactly favoring us, but they need to reflect the current balance of power between our teams in a possible settling race.
I'd also say that not settling towards each other with the first city is just a way of delaying the solution of the obvious problem that both our teams want to expand as far away as possible. So we don't see the benefit in such an agreement if it's not connected to some sort of borders discussion, which, again, will take into account that we are Sury of India.
Seeing that one of their neighboors already attacked them, it'd be interesting to see what they diplo-machine would do to answer us.

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